You see, after my divorce, I didn’t know if I was coming or going. But the one thing I did know for sure was that I didn’t want to be alone.

Do you follow me so far?

What I have found to be true is that many online dating services cater to the young adult crowd. However, with realmaturesingles.com, you can expect to meet people that are your age and stage in life.

What I mean by that is, people who are interested in relationships that last. People who have moved beyond game playing.

The simple truth is, I chose this site for that specific purpose.

First of all, setting up my account was as easy as 1-2-3. Think I’m exaggerating? You literally point and click your way through the registration process, which was great since I’m not a strong typist.

Know this: You will be required to answer all the questions on the main screen before you can move forward.

I was skeptical at first because they ask for your home address and telephone numbers.

But thank my lucky stars, the service is secure and they don’t sell or rent your information.

The questions asked are general in nature, and I had to remind myself several times to be as honest as possible.

You may not know this but it’s real easy to give the answers you believe people will want to hear, instead of the truth.

Surprisingly enough, after I had completed the registration process, I received an email from the customer service department. It stated that a “relationship expert” from realmaturesingles.com would be contacting me by phone to discuss my relationship goals and to see if I had any questions about the service.

The best part is, in less than 24 hours, I received a call from representative who helped me to make good decisions about what I was looking for, and the kind of service I wanted to invest in.

Seriously, I was shocked at the way they screen all those who sign up at their site.

To my knowledge, no other online dating service screens its customers this way. That means they are selective in who gain access to the site, which is a good way of making sure people are honest and real.

Since joining last month, I’ve been on 4 dates and each of them has been a pleasant surprise.

Realmaturesingles.com is the place to be for anyone over 40 looking for love. This is not just my opinion…it is a fact.

Until recently, I had sworn off online dating. Look, I’m 52 years old, my children are grown, and I just don’t have time to play any games.

During my first online dating experiences, I met men from all walks of life. But the one who sent a dagger to my heart was the one I almost married. Jonathan was every woman’s dream. Check this out: He was hardworking, full of energy, dripping with stamina, loving, kind and generous.

For nearly a year he wined and dined me – then he dropped the bombshell – his ex-wife was ill, and he needed to move 3,000 miles away to take care of her. He felt it was the right thing to do for his children.

Needless to say, I was crushed. I knew he was never coming back. And opportunity doesn’t knock twice, so I told myself online dating was not for me.

That was 4 years ago. And now, my friends have convinced me to jump in with both feet and give love a try again.

After all, three of my best friends have found love through realmaturesingles.com, and two others are having the time of theirs lives dating one man after another.

And truth be told, I was sick and tired of sitting home alone on Friday nights.

So, I bit the bullet and registered at the site. Thank my lucky stars that registration was easy – almost effortless.

Although I was skeptical about giving out my personal information, my friends assured me it was ok.

Imagine my surprise when a representative from the realmaturesingles.com called me to discuss my needs. No other online dating site has shown that type of interest before.

To top it off, they have matched me with some pretty amazing men.

I have been on tons of dates since joining. And even better than that, I’ve made some wonderful friends.

Realmaturesingles.com gave me my life back. In other words, they helped to put the life back in me. Too often we get stuck in a particular way of thinking, afraid to throw caution to wind and let our hair down.

I’m glad I took a chance on realmaturesingles.com. That’s not all; I learned it’s never too late to begin again. So, let me ask you this: Are you ready to start over?